Monday, December 15, 2014

Once Upon A Time

Christmas Eve

For almost two weeks there would be no more getting up early and going out into the blustery cold, walking backwards to avoid the sting of the icy snow on our faces to our bus stop to wait on the bus.  School was out, but the  excitement of Christmas vacation had dulled and now new enthusiasm rested in knowing that Christmas Eve had finally come!  We had counted the months, the days, the hours.  Today, it was upon us.

I wanted a baby doll.  Every year I wanted a baby doll.  I had spent the past couple of months, ever since the Sears Wish Book arrived, carefully studying each doll.  I rated them considering how many outfits were included and if they had a bottle, the kind with the fake milk or juice that would magically disappear when the baby was fed.  

I could hardly wait for tomorrow to get here.  I yearned to hold that new baby and to smell her newness.

Three brothers and two sisters flitted through the little four room house, laughing and telling stories of Santa and Christmas's past.   The door of the pot belly stove clanged as Mom opened it and shoved the poker inside, stirring the coal, then shaking the ashes from the bottom.  "Don't forget to put your socks out," she said.  She did not have to remind us.  We were on it.

Christmas Morning

Sunrise.  Eagerness.  Our ritual chant of "We want up!"  Soon Mom was ready and gave us the okay.

The black and white living room that had been abandoned the night before was converted into a magical display of color and great lights of reds, blues, and greens bounced off the gray wall showing bright on the long needle pine tree that sat in the corner of the shabby little living room.  And oh, the smell of Christmas!  Silver tinsel hung heavy on the branches and long brilliant red lights bubbled, erupting, mesmerizing.  Our socks lay nearby, filled with sweet smells of oranges, candy and nuts.

I found my baby and I held her close.  Hearts were light and everyone was happy.

Christmas Night

I adjusted my earphones into my ears and slowly moved the dial on my transistor radio.  Some stations were coming in different languages and I just couldn't believe that I was sharing secrets of another place clear across the world.

I tried to sleep, but the enchantment of Christmas day was still thick in the air.  My other siblings, sleeping in the same room, had become silent and were falling off to sleep, but my older sister Rita and my older brother Jimmy were just off of our bedroom in the living room playing with their new tape recorder.  They would record something funny, listen to it and laugh hysterically, and then erase it and record something else.  Into the early hours of the morning they played, and laughed.  I giggled beneath my covers, thinking about how these two were so comical.  I was glad they were my brother and sister.  I admired them so!

December 16, 2014

Tomorrow my sister Rita will travel to Pennsylvania to spend yet another Christmas with my big brother Jim.  She will be there for as long as he needs her.  The laughter will be minimal though, and the feeling of utopia that was felt on that Christmas day almost fifty years ago will have faded and will be replaced by a gut-wrenching pain, a sadness, a yearning for younger more innocent times when cancer was not spoken of and our lives were infinity and beyond.  Life would go on forever, you see.  That was a given back in those days of old.  

Rita and Jimmy
Jimmy and Rita
Goofy me in the middle....  and an older Jimmy and Rita to the right

Here we are recently, just last year.  Rita is second one from left and Jimmy is far right holding his best friend, Koda.

Once upon a time, there was Christmas magic.  But then, the years swept away that magic and all that was left was truth.  But if I close my eyes and think real hard, memories and  magic return.  And I'm a little girl again.


12 comments:

  1. Oh Bobbi, such wonderful memories from Christmases of long ago, what a sad reality of Christmas present. What a special relationship for Rita and Jimmy to have years later that she would come and spend Christmas with him and beyond. I hope Jimmy's Christmas is a peaceful one.

    betty

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  2. Reality is a difficult pill to swallow at times. may your Jimmy have peace this holiday. He is in my prayers and so are you. Allow yourself the luxury to escape adulthood with it's problems and frustrations and let yourself be that little girl again, through the eyes of your grandbabies.

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  3. I'm so sorry. Your Christmas as a child seems magical. I think it is so much better if you have a sibling. I always wanted one so badly.

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  4. Bitter sweet. We hope you all manage to enjoy the holiday. Have a terrific Tuesday.
    Best wishes Molly

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  5. This is lovely. Thanks for sharing. I suspect this will be the final year for Santa in our house. My little girl is starting to ask questions about whether Santa is real ...it's bitter sweet and sad to think some of the magic will be gone next year. Time passes so quickly!

    Merry Christmas!

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  6. Once again your writing brings tears to my eyes.I will be there for you in these upcoming trials of life. Lean on me as you need to. To my beautiful wife, Love,Gary

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  7. You have had some wonderful Christmas magic, and great memories.

    Remember it's not where or what you celebrate, it's who you celebrate with.

    X

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  8. I am right there with you Bobbie, closing my eyes and longing for those days of years gone by! Memories are precious and forever! Sending HUGS and PRAYERS your way dear friend!

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  9. Wonderful memories Bobbie. I am thinking of a few myself lately. My hubby has cancer again for the 3rd time and I wish for easier times. Thank God for memories to ease some trying times.

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  10. Thank you for sharing your heart with each of us,. The memorys of the past are treasures... Hold onto them for as long as you live..
    We understand the reality of what your saying..we really do.....
    You wrote this so beautifully.
    love
    tweedles

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  11. Beautifully written - I loved reading about Christmas past. It was a time of magic, just as you said. Draw deeply on your memories, Bobbi. Reality often bites, but memories dull the pain. Some. ((HUGS))

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  12. Your beautiful Christmas story brought tears to my eyes. My brother and I felt the infinity of our futures too as we opened our presents on Christmas Eve. I have been without him now for over 30 years. Reality can be so harsh. I will keep Jim in my prayers and Koda too. My heart goes out to both of them. And for you, dear Bobbi, please hold Gracie tight, give her kisses from Samson and me and please know that you are in my prayers.

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