Monday, November 1, 2010

Mondays Mug: She Loved Her Father So

Mondays Mug

This mug was given to Hubby
from his daughter Athena for Father's Day.
Athena, at age ten would cry 
because her mom wouldn't 
let her spend more time with her dad.  

She then would cry when it was time for
her to go home because 
she wanted to live with us. 

This is the other side of the mug.

  She loved her father so...

But the X found a psychologist who works out of the basement of his home, does not have a PHD, and oh, the things this man was allowed to do to this child!!!

There are many good memories.  

At age 13, we saw her for the last time.  
She was bribed, hypnotized,
put on some very strong drugs, and brainwashed. 
I have all the court papers and emails
that prove all these things.

 She now believes her father
 abused her from age 3 to 13. 

 She hates him. 

What happens is, along with good memories,
false memories are planted
 and the past gets distorted. 
 Before her father was targeted, 
his father and son were targeted. 
 When that wasn't enough to 
remove him from her life,
 they chose to target her father. 

 For those not involved in
 something like this,
they might not have a clue
 as to how this could happen. 
 Aren't the courts fair? 
Doesn't proof mean anything? 
Isn't the best interest of the child
 what matters most?

The answer is no to all of the above.

It is a money train, 
and all involved get a piece of the pie. 
I watched it happen.  
It was the worse form of child abuse I've ever seen...
 happening on the inside... pulling a heart of
love and admiration from a child 
and planting a heart of
resentment, hatred and anger in it's place. 

Hubby continues to send child support,
 but never sees her.  
He also pays for a Christian school.  
She just turned 18 last month, 
but has another year to go to school.

Tell me what you think of this video 
she just put on you tube a few days ago. 

 Be prepared though, it's foul... 

Keep in mind, hubby has no input in her life.  
He's been forced out of her life since age 13. 

I can still hear him praying with her
 at bedtime when she'd be with us. 

He continues to pray for her.  

Jealousy is an awful thing,
and for someone to do what was done to
this father and daughter
  is an abomination.   

Hubby met with Athena's Christian School principal when she was 13,
 and shared with them some of the stuff he was finding online...  
 He was reaching out for someone to help her.  

The X told Athena:  
"What kind of a father would do such a thing...
go to their daughter's school like that and do this?"  

A father who cares.  

God help this kid, who is now a disturbed adult
because of what has been done to her.


  1. Oh, gosh, this is just horrible!! I am so sorry for all of this. The X is a very sad person who would do something like this. This must be such a constant pain in your husband's heart. The girls seem stoned in the video, how very sad for everyone involved.

  2. the mug is cute. Your husband is an honorable man for living up to his side of the arrangement with paying child support faithfully and also paying for her education. It is sad that her mother for whatever reason decided to do this and inflict pain on so many people as a result of her decision. All one can do is pray, since God is the God of the impossible, that somehow he will restore a relationship between your husband and his daughter. I agree with the other comment that the girls looked "high" in the video. Sad that they felt they had to put that out for the world to see. Lost souls... so sad....


  3. Thank you ladies, I appreciate your input. Please if you think about it keep our situation in your prayers. Yesterday our children's church along with our pastor and assistant pastor put on a play about the prodigal son, and while the son was out squandering his inheritance and enjoying the world, the father sat at home praying for his son's safety. It really hit home with us... and though it's sometimes hard to pray for one who seems hopeless, God is good and He can do miracles. Who else can change a heart?!

  4. The mug is very cute!

    Sorry about the rest - was that maybe for the benefit of her MOTHER? She obviously is not guiding her on a good path, is there no way you could counter with bad mother with copies of the youtube clips? There needs to be an intervention, and soon!

  5. Sharon, her mother knows about it, and approves. She's actually favorited video's that were a lot worse than that one. There is nothing at all that we can do. Only pray.

  6. Oh, that's just sick. Her mother needs as much help as she does, we need to pray for her too.

  7. With a crazy week, I'm playing the game up catch up on your blog--I started with this post and wasn't going to comment, but I thik I will if you don't mind...I am just going to say that I know what your family is going through. We had a similar thing happen in my own family. My neice accused my Father and brother of this very thing--It was awful. While my neice eventually admitted to lying the pain the and the damage she caused everyone was done. She is also a mixed up adult that recently tried to get in touch with me. And while the anger is long gone (and my father has passed away) I have forgiven her for what she did, but I can't forget and don't want her in my life--At least not right now. Maybe someday. But for now, having compassion for her is all I have and it's taken a lot of prayers just to have that. Time does heal, but prayer really does help to make it 'all better' and give you the strength to continue. I will hope for the same thing for your family.

  8. I'm sorry to hear that your father was a victim also.I know exactly what he went through.I'm also sorry to that he is gone.Satan's time is running out and he is doing all in his power to pull families apart.We win in the end!!

  9. Oh wow! I am so sorry that this happened/is happening to your husband! I will never understand vicious lies!


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